Sunday, October 10, 2010

Happy Birthday Jennifer!


I love it when we get together to celebrate! Even if it's just for a few hours to honor one or two of us who are celebrating another year of health, happiness and love.

Yesterday we celebrated Jennifer's 40th birthday (which was actually the 6th of October) and lots of smiles, laughs, hugs and happiness were had by all!


You may be 40 but you will always be the little sister I remember sitting on the beach with you in Florida feeding the seagulls flying above our heads. I'll have to find that photo!


I love you and wish you many more Happy Birthdays to come!

Saturday, July 24, 2010

A Birds Eye View
















Joe officially caught the crafting bug! I'm sure he'd prefer that we say that he officially broke out his woodworking skills.

For a long time now he has wanted to have a marten house in the back yard. Those are birds...he tells me.
I don't think that what he ended up with was what he originally had in mind.
But, with a little help from me, Amber and Claire, he ended up with a totem of birdhouses that a marten or any other adventurous winged creature would be proud to inhabit.

Monday, July 19, 2010

"The Real World"

Believe it or not one of my favorite things about kids are the things that come out of their mouths.

No! Really! I know....it's not always what you (or the guy standing in line with you at the grocery store) may want to hear but it usually makes a great story, right?

I call them Kidism's.

For Brandon, my oldest my two favorites were Pokaneo (spelled for phonetics) instead of Pinnoccio (forgive my spelling), and Sprinkner, sprinkner to describe a sprinkler in the park.

For Amber is was velagator instead of elevator. And, washin' de windows while scrubbing the tiles in the bathtub.

Kidism's....

Or, call them by the name of the child that speaks them which in this case would be a Claireism.

Claire loves to eat out. I think she thinks it's just a normal part of life. No blame on her parents. It's just fast and easier sometimes.

She really enjoys pasta and/or noodles of almost any kind but really likes Chinese. So, it would be a no brainer that when her mom found PF Changs in a bag (the food, not the store...duh) that it would be fast and easy....at home.

So, she asked Claire if she would like some noodles and she said yes. So, her mom pulled out the frozen bag of PF Changs simulated food and Claire indicated that she didn't want that...she wanted the Real World. Huh? We blew it off and didn't think much more about it.

Amber "cooked" and plated the food and put it down in front of her daughter who promptly pitched a fit an re announced in a very pissy tone "I want the Real World, not this"!

We asked her what she meant. She wanted Chinese food from "out there"pointing her chubby little, 4 year old index finger to outside. Restaurant food! That's what she considered the "Real World".

We burst out laughing once we realized what she was talking about! Man does she have a rude awakening coming to her in a few years!

Oh, and by the way.....she ate the food her mom prepared. She really liked it. Go figure.

Sunday, July 11, 2010

The Generosity of Love and Spirit







Joe, Amber and I just spent a wonderful three day weekend in Grand Lake, Colorado. If you've never been there you should go. I can't believe it's been so long (almost 6 years) since we were last there. I'd forgotten how special of a place it can be and this trip didn't fail to remind me of that.

The day actually started off with a trip to Johnson's Corner for breakfast. Yum! We had just received our breakfast when a large contingency of motorcycles pulled up into the parking lot. Not just any motorcycles mind you (that wouldn't warrant a notation in the blog), but a group of women who I'm sure put black leather, pink and bling on the map! They were so impressive that not one consumer in the place was focused on their food.

They were the "Women Who Ride". A group of extraordinary women who ride for breast cancer (Gowitheflo.org). When we met them they told Amber that they had raised $24,000 for Breast Cancer. You go girls! I'm in awe of all of you. Keep you eyes posted. They took a photo with Amber (showing her tattoo). We hope to see it on their blog!

The drive was beautiful and uneventful. No traffic, no accidents, no bad weather. Just a slight hold up on Trail Ridge where they are ripping up the road! Yikes! Plan on adding some time to your trip if you take Trail Ridge this summer.

We arrived at our hotel just at the end of the Main St. Grand Lake and unpacked for the night. Nice little log cabin type hotel. Nothing fancy. Just a place to crash. Then we went into town.

Pretty quiet since it was a Friday afternoon. We hit a few stores and then found a place to have dinner and a cocktail and to relax a bit from the drive. Nice dinner...very good food. Now on to more shopping!

We came across an amazing little shop...it had shoes in it! OK...not just shoes but shoes, bags, blankets, rugs, and jewelry. The shoes had handwoven stitching and leather on them. They were beautiful. The store manager, Omer, was pleasant and tried very hard to sell. Amber and I are easy targets for shoes but we were not quite ready to buy. But, the story doesn't end there. Stay tuned.

Just outside of Omer's store was an amazing set up of hand made garden statuary's, flowers, garden arches, parts of old fences, wooden boxes...well, look at the photo. You'll see. But we didn't know where it all came from. The store behind it was an interior designs store. Lovely stuff but not our style. So we moved on.

We cruised the rest of the small main avenue and saw one of the decorative garden stakes that we had seen in the garden display earlier. Now I was on a mission. I had to find out where those items came from. So we went back to where we started and Omer told us to go to the back of the interior design store and that's where we would find them. Bingo! There they were. Rabbits, pelicans, cowboys, lighthouses, butterflies, goats, chickens, roosters! All kinds of wonderful, whimsical outside decorative items! I was in heaven! OK...I was only in the "backyard" of the store but it was filled with so much fun!

We picked up a couple of items, a rooster and a rabbit. They are made out of old car parts and full of color. We couldn't resist. Now to plan a place to put them. Mental plan in the works.

While Joe and I were outside of the store Amber was inside chatting with the store manager. They became fast friends and Amber ended up telling her a little bit about herself and her situation. This is where the Spirit of Love and Generosity part of the story begins.

Amber's new friend, Marjorie, had an instant bond with Amber. She wanted to know more about her and invited her to spend a weekend back in Grand Lake at her Bed and Breakfast and for Amber to attend one of her workshops....for free. Marjorie is not only a talented interior designer but creates beautiful paintings as well. This put Amber on the moon. That someone she had just met would make such a generous offer. But, it continues on.

Marjorie took Amber next door to Omer's store and purchased for her a beautiful pashmina scarf and wrapped her in it. She also gave her a book called Heaven which was so appropriate. Marjorie was an angel sent to Grand Lake to be there to spoil Amber and that is what she did. Amber was so overwhelmed and surprised. None of us could believe the spirit and generosity of this women. We visited for awhile longer and went on our way. Amber (and Joe and I) were a little stunned by the moments we had just experienced.

We strolled a little further down the row of shops and decided we were a little tired and drained from the experience so we headed back to our hotel.

As we did, Omer stepped out of his store and asked us to step in. He asked Amber which pair of shoes sh had been looking at in his store. She pointed them out, he took them off the shelf and asked him to come with her to the register. He rang them in, wrote them up and gave them to her.....for free. OK...almost for free. That was his intentions but Amber wouldn't let him. She said she couldn't let him just give them to her. She asked how much, he said zero. She insisted, he responded. $10. That's all he would let her pay. This was a 90% savings for Amber and a 100% emotional boost. She was now over the moon and could not believe what had happened to her in downtown Grand Lake. Neither could we.

The rest of the weekend somewhat paled in comparison to our first few hours there but we still had an incredible time.

We moved locations to just outside of town to a place called Winding River Resort. Not as glammy as the name sounds but it's where we would spend the morning running ATV's up and down the mountain. It's a nice place for riding horses, renting ATVs, chuck wagon meals, and ice cream socials. We were to tired to participate after the morning of ATVs and going back into town so we stopped at the store, picked up some items to make dinner and crashed for the evening.


Sunday was a nice drive down the mountain to pick up Claire from her Grandparents and Taiko from my moms. It was nice to be home. The house is quiet, comfortable and...well, home. Aaaaahhhh.




Friday, April 23, 2010

Answers and Explanations


Answers and explanations. Sometimes that's all we need but rarely what we get.


The questions and issues seem to far outweigh the more positive responses it takes to move forward.
But, we don't have any choice. We must move forward. We must take the wins when we can get them no matter how small.
In the win column: A good day here and there....a win. Two or more in a row...total jackpot.

Eating more than 1/2 bagel with cream cheese in a day...a win. Eating fish sticks for lunch and a bowl of mac and cheese and 1/2 a piece of cheese cake for dinner...like Christmas dinner.

Sitting up long enough to watch a favorite TV program or have a long conversation with family....a win. Being up and around enough to take a shower, go to lunch, walk around Target, get nails done and argue with Mom that she has enough energy to go to the grocery store too, well...a win but way to much to make Mom comfortable but not so much that it didn't make Mom proud of her for trying her best.
Like I said...small wins. We'll take them when we can get them.
After 18 days in the hospital again (March 17 - April 5th) and now at home for three weeks she seems to have reached an evening point with the exception of a lot of sleep and not eating enough.
She will still have her good and bad days. We always hope for more good.
And, as we move forward we hope for more answers and explanations.
And, in the same spirit of hope, love and moving forward I want to acknowledge a loss in our family.
Carl Marti, (standing in the photo above)loving husband, father of two smart and talented grown sons, brother, son and cousin left us a few days ago after having endured pancreatic cancer. He was a brilliant, brilliant man, a dedicated educator and a champion of planet earth and her creatures.
You will be missed by a great many and our hearts go with your lovely wife Margaret and your son's and their families.